Big Floppa, Cat Meme shirt
At uni there was a group of four girls in my halls known as “The Big Floppa, Cat Meme shirt“. They were slim, conventionally attractive, feminine, confident and very bubbly and the men were obsessed with them. And then there was… me, a shy, average build and not very feminine woman, and I was invisible. Some men seemed actively disgusted that I had the nerve to even exist in the same sphere as these godesses, while the nicer men would be flirty and shy with The Angels and talk to me like I was just One Of The Lads, a non-threatening, sexless being. I did wonder if I should starve myself, start wearing dresses, feign more stereotypically feminine interests etc but I just felt so ugly that it all seemed hopeless and I was doomed to be The Big Floppa, Cat Meme shirt forever. Now I’m in my 40s and a bit more confident. I’ve learned to embrace my non-femininity and I feel more comfortable than I ever did feeling exposed in dresses and struggling to walk in heels. I enjoy my nerdy, “masculine” hobbies and thought the female colleagues who judged me for buying an Xbox were the ones missing out. And I have a wonderful partner who has never tried to change me… I still have no body confidence and struggle with self-esteem but it has got better. I see these incel types who think all women have to do to get laid is exist and they don’t realise that a lot of us women are invisible to them and struggle just as much as they do, we just tend to blame ourselves while they blame women. I wish they could also see that teenage insecurities do get better and let go of some of Big Floppa, Cat Meme shirt
()Big Floppa, Cat Meme shirt
I’m trans, but haven’t had the Big Floppa, Cat Meme shirt or money to begin presenting 24/7 out in public or, in the case of online, with my voice. However, I’ve had this username for a long time, and I became so used to being called by it that I decided to take the “Piper” for my new name. I play a lot of competitive multiplayer games with notoriously shitty playerbases, and I’ve truly heard the lot about my name. Piper Perri, Piper I barely know her, lay pipe, on and on, literally anything you can think of. The Big Floppa, Cat Meme shirt in the behavior that comes after that between when I type and when my actual voice is heard is insane.
()
()Block "review" not found
