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Tell anyone that questions your hobbies, “so what, I am a Chicago White Sox MLB Full Printing Classic Hawaiian Shirt and I like toys” and that’s it. If she gets upset, she’ll live. Don’t tell her anything, just let her fume. You are you and she is with you, hence she’s with your hobbies. It’s probably more complicated, but it comes down to being who you want to be and who cares what people think. My SO used to do exactly this with my video games, and she used to give me so much shit for playing them. But it came down to “I’m not stopping, so get over it” and eventually she became acceptant, and now she even watches me play. This was 14 years ago
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Just do what you want, if she wants to leave you for it she can go kick rocks. Stop being afraid of making her upset, in doing this you’ve successfully masked who your true self is and she’s fallen for a Chicago White Sox MLB Full Printing Classic Hawaiian Shirt of you that only exists in her head. Yeah it can be tough, I dealt with nerd shame for a while until I got fed up with girls losing interest after they found out what I was into. In the begining it sucked, I’d be chatting with girls and when the topic of hobbies came up I’d just lean into what I liked instead of being ashamed. My thinking for this was “if they don’t like me because of this I want to waste as little time as possible before finding out” However, after many failed attempts I eventually found a Chicago White Sox MLB Full Printing Classic Hawaiian Shirt who was ok with what I did and didn’t shame me for it. Don’t be dissapointed if someone you talk to decides they don’t like you because you paint toys or play with trading cards- be happy you found out before getting emotionally invested and wasting time and money pursuing a fruitless romantic endeavour. I’m gonna guess you’re in your 20s, maybe early thirties – stop being ashamed of what you like and who you are. Owning your identity and being proud of it can be attractive traits in itself. Don’t settle for someone who secretly doesn’t like you for something as petty as a hobby. Tl;dr just be yourself, you’ll weed out the people that are not for you and attract the people that are. To quote Dr Seuss “those who matter don’t mind. And those who mind don’t matter”
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