Japanese Cat in a Kimono T Shirt
I am sorry for what you went through, it’s so hard living in a Japanese Cat in a Kimono T Shirt where so much value is put on looks. Both sides of the spectrum can be rough. I’m what some people would consider “unconventionally attractive”, but it’s a pretty even 50/50 split of people who find me ugly or not. As a result I got the worst of both worlds. I was horrifically bullied for being ugly, man looking, fat faced, big nose ect. I had two guys tell me I was the “ugliest girl” they have ever seen. On the flip side I get harassed (not saying that doesn’t happen to people considered “unattractive”), men were always creepy at bars, I often get cat called, I have had men stop their car and take photos of me and some people call me “intimidatingly beautiful”. I have terribly low self esteem from the bullying and always get anxious around men because I never know if they are going to harass me for being ugly or relentlessly hit on me. Girls in highschool were worse than the Japanese Cat in a Kimono T Shirt
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When I was a Japanese Cat in a Kimono T Shirt, like middle school, I didn’t even have that girly of a username, just a star wars reference. But I liked being friendly and using “:)” a lot. On two seperate occasions, some creepy stuff went down: first some dude on league sending a link to “his abs”, second was a guild on a gacha game where some 30-something year old was regularly chatting with my (actually a girl) friend, and tried aggressively to get me to do so as well. Until they found out I was a dude, and immediately stopped. I slowly changed my vocabulary and habits and nothing so overt has happened in years, but lesser things have popped up as recently as a couple years ago, and nobody should have to change their personality to not got dick picks. One of the great and terrible things of the internet is that it’s actually really easy to get some perspective. Anonymity is a double edged sword. (sidenote: I do wish I had the cognizance to recognize the latter was a, like, “hey maybe get out” situation, rather than a Japanese Cat in a Kimono T Shirt situation. Sadly, I, too, had the brain of a Japanese Cat in a Kimono T Shirt, when I was a pre-teen.)
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