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She’s trying to change you into being what SHE wants. That’s not right. That’s not loving someone. That’s wanting to dominate and control someone. It may start with just your hobby (she might perceive it as being “low status” or foreign to her world and is hence trying to trim it away), but over time it will extend to everything you do. It grows into wanting to control how you speak, how you dress, what your career should be, etc. This is usually the Kitties Musician Cat Hawaiian Shirt, Cat Print Hawaiian Shirt of someone being needy and insecure; they need to control every little thing about “their world” because they’re afraid it will all fall apart for some reason.
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“I spend heaps of Kitties Musician Cat Hawaiian Shirt, Cat Print Hawaiian Shirt doing things she wants to do in hopes that in return I can spend time with my hobby – but it always comes down to an argument” Regardless what your hobby is, be it 40K, golf, fishing, a partner should support you. Life with a supportive partner isn’t a ledger sheets of give and take that is save to be cashed in later. It’s a partnership where you are both striving to create a Kitties Musician Cat Hawaiian Shirt, Cat Print Hawaiian Shirts life where you are both happier and better for the relationship. Granted, this is a small snapshot of a whole relationship, it does not seem like you two are aligned. It doesn’t sound like she respects you and it sounds like you are giving up a lot of and she is giving up very little. When she inevitably throws the ‘you’re breaking up with me for toys?!’ remember this: you’re not breaking up with her for 40K, your breaking up with her cause she belittles you, doesn’t support you, and is making you feel shame for something that you have loved for 20 years. Good luck dude
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