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At uni there was a group of four girls in my halls known as “The POP FACTORY RUB MY BELLY AND TELL ME I’M PRETTY LADIES BLACK T SHIRT“. They were slim, conventionally attractive, feminine, confident and very bubbly and the men were obsessed with them. And then there was… me, a shy, average build and not very feminine woman, and I was invisible. Some men seemed actively disgusted that I had the nerve to even exist in the same sphere as these godesses, while the nicer men would be flirty and shy with The Angels and talk to me like I was just One Of The Lads, a non-threatening, sexless being. I did wonder if I should starve myself, start wearing dresses, feign more stereotypically feminine interests etc but I just felt so ugly that it all seemed hopeless and I was doomed to be The POP FACTORY RUB MY BELLY AND TELL ME I’M PRETTY LADIES BLACK T SHIRT forever. Now I’m in my 40s and a bit more confident. I’ve learned to embrace my non-femininity and I feel more comfortable than I ever did feeling exposed in dresses and struggling to walk in heels. I enjoy my nerdy, “masculine” hobbies and thought the female colleagues who judged me for buying an Xbox were the ones missing out. And I have a wonderful partner who has never tried to change me… I still have no body confidence and struggle with self-esteem but it has got better. I see these incel types who think all women have to do to get laid is exist and they don’t realise that a lot of us women are invisible to them and struggle just as much as they do, we just tend to blame ourselves while they blame women. I wish they could also see that teenage insecurities do get better and let go of some of POP FACTORY RUB MY BELLY AND TELL ME I’M PRETTY LADIES BLACK T SHIRT
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If anything, this post and its comments have let me know that I’m not the POP FACTORY RUB MY BELLY AND TELL ME I’M PRETTY LADIES BLACK T SHIRT person with wonky eyes & failed surgeries. As a kid, I was fat, awkward, wonky-eyed and bullied for all of it. Eventually, as I aged into my unattractive 20s, the overt bullying stopped. But, all the POP FACTORY RUB MY BELLY AND TELL ME I’M PRETTY LADIES BLACK T SHIRT, whispered conversations, and cruel comments from other people in my dating cohort started. I kept aging out of those social circles, and now at 50 I am largely ignored. I have gone from unattractive to invisible. Unless I’m in someone’s way, or inconveniencing them, no one really ‘sees’ me anymore. I dyed my hair purple on a POP FACTORY RUB MY BELLY AND TELL ME I’M PRETTY LADIES BLACK T SHIRT. I have gotten so many compliments about it, from men & women. It freaked me out, honestly. I don’t get positive attention from randos. A POP FACTORY RUB MY BELLY AND TELL ME I’M PRETTY LADIES BLACK T SHIRT of me likes being complimented, but I kinda want to go back to being invisible.
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