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So this is one of those things that you can treat as a Star Wars Cats Hawaiian Shirt for both of Star Wars Cats Hawaiian Shirt. Obviously when you commit to a relationship it’s going to effect your time available to hobby. If you think your still going to get 3-4hours a day your kidding yourself, especially as things get more serious. However at the same time she needs to have respect for you enough to not belittle your interests. She doesn’t have to like it or want to partake in it in the slightest. You also on the other hand need to ensure you earn that respect by not letting your hobby interest degrade your responsibilities. As many of us often do(myself included). This means sacrificing some of those hours for your responsibilities (chores, affection. Etc.). You also need to effectively communicate with each other. Do not just bottle it up or lash out and be aggressive. You need to respect her much as you want her to respect you. Understand that in relationships this is not always equally given all the time. If she still refuses to respect you and you have done what you can to earn that respect. Then I would suggest reconsidering the choices that led to your relationship. Do not however throw it away because some internet people told you to. Honor, communicate and respect each other to the best you can. If it’s still not work then move on.
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