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Ugly, fat, and disabled here! All I’ve ever wanted in my entire life is for people to be able to look at me without making assumptions. It’ll never, ever happen. People are always going to look at me and assume I’m lazy, unhealthy, and whatever else people associate with fat bodies, bad skin, and not-quite-right, awkward facial expressions. It doesn’t matter that I have the medical conditions to logically explain all of these things. It doesn’t matter that I started starving myself at 10 years old and continued to do so for decades because an undiagnosed metabolic disorder made my body hold onto everything. It doesn’t matter that the same disorder covered me with pimples and unwanted hair in weird places starting at 11 years old and will presumably never let up. It doesn’t matter that I’m in constant pain from a collection of inflammatory, autoimmune, and neurological conditions because when I have to rest, people see a fat person being still and assume I’m lazy. It doesn’t matter that I have a pair of neurodevelopmental conditions that make me process sensory and social information differently, and which are debilitating in ways I’ll never be able to express with words. I’m just an awkward mess of a person on the Vintage Halloween Shirt all anyone will ever see. Most won’t bother to even try to know me. When I die, people will say “Well what did you expect? That’s what happens when you’re lazy and you don’t take care of yourself,” and only one or two of them will ever know just how hard I had to work to do exactly that every single day, just to survive. Caring for this body that causes me nothing but pain is now a full-time job that I can never, ever take a vacation or retire from. I feel you, OP, and I’m sorry. The Vintage Halloween Shirt dehumanization is heavy and it changes a person. I’d give anything to experience the Vintage Halloween Shirt of being typical but I also know it would only hurt me because then I’d be able to compare my life directly.
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My experience with this might not align with many but figured I would post. I used to moderate forums (not Reddit) and always had to deal with angry unapologetic $&@!$ day in and day out. Getting warned, banned, or suspended definitely did not make them happy. They would basically be jerks all throughout our interactions and there was no reasoning with them. One day, I accepted a similar bet and had to stick to a female username and it, no joke, made my life 100 times easier. It was like night and day. People would actually be apologetic, they wouldn’t argue like crazy, they weren’t anywhere as aggressive. Needless to say that I never went back and spent the next few years on that account. Did I get some creepy messages? You bet. But the Vintage Halloween Shirtoff was an absolute no brainer. This was years ago, I no longer moderate anything but the experience was so good that to this day I have a general tendency to pick either female usernames or neutral usernames that guys usually wouldn’t pick. If I game online I almost always create female characters as well for a better experience (which goes against my offline tendencies of creating male characters) And because some people might wonder. I usually play along and keep my interactions neutral enough that a lot of people assume I’m female (since that’s kinda the point). The Vintage Halloween Shirt I interact with most/regularly would be aware though. Reddit and one other forum are the Vintage Halloween Shirt. Mainly because I don’t have any attachement to the accounts and I don’t interact that often with people. (I lurk a lot) These interactions are all text based though. Worth noting.
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