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For years I’ve played games as female characters, usually with neutral or feminine sounding names, and I don’t use voice chat. More often than not people will assume I’m a woman, and the only times I actually correct people is when they simply act friendly without trying to hit on me or make overtly sexual remarks because chances are those are the Cat Curious In A Water Lily Lake, Hawaiian Shirt just want to enjoy the game with friendly people just like I do. And when I say “oh, btw I’m actually a dude” they tend not to care, and we go about our business having a Cat Curious In A Water Lily Lake, Hawaiian Shirt. But those kinds of guys are few and far between. So yeah I’ve willingly put myself in the shoes of female gamers and I feel like it’s helped me understand the struggle a bit better than most guys, but I’ve considered myself a feminist for a long time and lurk in this sub quite a bit to try a familiarize myself with the common issues women deal with. I’ve seen a lot of the nasty shit y’all deal with from toxic male gamers first hand and it disgusts me. I’ve gotten the sexist remarks, graphically sexual comments, and rape threats. I feel like if more men play games like I do, they wouldn’t treat women with such disdain
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