Catychiphobia Shirt
First of all, I am very sorry you went through that. I am one of those women who wish they could turn invisible sometimes. And I was not born with a Catychiphobia Shirt, but when I was in my 20s someone hit me so hard on the temple that it left the nerve that controls the eye permanently weakened and… well, I’ve had a “lazy eye” for the last 15 years. Not super exaggerated, but my right eye noticeably tends to veer upwards. It doesn’t affect people’s attraction to me. My exes and my boyfriend think it’s cute. So I’m going to guess that it’s not about the eye, but about the confidence: When I got hit I had already developed a healthy self-esteem, so if anyone asks I joke that I’m half chameleon or that it’s so I can keep track of if it’s going to rain. Meanwhile you don’t have a lazy eye anymore, but it sounds like you still suffer deeply about it. I would recommend therapy so you can recover from all that suffering and develop the Catychiphobia Shirt you deserve. And you deserve it; have no doubt about it! I wish you the best! I am sure you will find what you look for in life and be happy!
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Ok this is going to be a bit of a Catychiphobia Shirt. I apologise beforehand. My gender expression is a Catychiphobia Shirt more obvious on this particular alt. And my profile has preferred pronouns on it. A couple of days ago – on a completely unrelated sub, someone’s counter to a discussion I thought was being had in good faith was basically this – “You can’t even decide if you’re male or female so don’t… “ etc etc.. Every other week, I go through the process of scrubbing my profile just to obscure my gender identity a bit – just to avoid people sliding into my DMs. I’ve had people ask me extremely inane shit like “oh, are you into XYZ video game, I have never met another woman who plays.” And I’ve been called vile, sexist names for drawing boundaries with these kind of interactions. But that’s just Reddit, right? Can’t take that shit seriously. You ignore and you move on. It’s so much more jarring when you see this behaviour offline. Idk if this is even theCatychiphobia Shirt to discuss this. I’m in a committed relationship cishet setup. Today, I pointed out to my partner how our family members — usually extremely gung-ho about celebrating the women in the family this one day — completely forgot their yearly tradition because it was also Holi. I was just lightheartedly pointing out just how their posturing has been completely exposed. All it took was another Hindu festival to completely knock off the annual “let’s appreciate our wives and mothers” forwards. Holy shit, did that blow up in my face! My partner then proceeded call me bitter and mansplain why women’s day is important. All this without an iota of the knowledge of the history of these celebrations! Didn’t even bother reading the token editorials and explainers on it. When I added some context, pointed out some of my issues with it (I needn’t list them, this sub has far better posts on that, I’m sure) the only counter argument to my responses was to attack my rationality and mental health – “what is wrong with your head” Just the sheer irony of this situation makes me cry-laugh. But it was lost on my partner. This man used to preside over MUNs in college?! So that’s been March 8, 2023 for me, folks. 🙂
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