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I am sorry for what you went through, it’s so hard living in a Ramen Cat T Shirt Anime Kawaii Neko Ramen Cute Japanese Noodle Cool Gift Tee shirt where so much value is put on looks. Both sides of the spectrum can be rough. I’m what some people would consider “unconventionally attractive”, but it’s a pretty even 50/50 split of people who find me ugly or not. As a result I got the worst of both worlds. I was horrifically bullied for being ugly, man looking, fat faced, big nose ect. I had two guys tell me I was the “ugliest girl” they have ever seen. On the flip side I get harassed (not saying that doesn’t happen to people considered “unattractive”), men were always creepy at bars, I often get cat called, I have had men stop their car and take photos of me and some people call me “intimidatingly beautiful”. I have terribly low self esteem from the bullying and always get anxious around men because I never know if they are going to harass me for being ugly or relentlessly hit on me. Girls in highschool were worse than the Ramen Cat T Shirt Anime Kawaii Neko Ramen Cute Japanese Noodle Cool Gift Tee shirt
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Ok this is going to be a bit of a Ramen Cat T Shirt Anime Kawaii Neko Ramen Cute Japanese Noodle Cool Gift Tee shirt. I apologise beforehand. My gender expression is a Ramen Cat T Shirt Anime Kawaii Neko Ramen Cute Japanese Noodle Cool Gift Tee shirt more obvious on this particular alt. And my profile has preferred pronouns on it. A couple of days ago – on a completely unrelated sub, someone’s counter to a discussion I thought was being had in good faith was basically this – “You can’t even decide if you’re male or female so don’t… “ etc etc.. Every other week, I go through the process of scrubbing my profile just to obscure my gender identity a bit – just to avoid people sliding into my DMs. I’ve had people ask me extremely inane shit like “oh, are you into XYZ video game, I have never met another woman who plays.” And I’ve been called vile, sexist names for drawing boundaries with these kind of interactions. But that’s just Reddit, right? Can’t take that shit seriously. You ignore and you move on. It’s so much more jarring when you see this behaviour offline. Idk if this is even theRamen Cat T Shirt Anime Kawaii Neko Ramen Cute Japanese Noodle Cool Gift Tee shirt to discuss this. I’m in a committed relationship cishet setup. Today, I pointed out to my partner how our family members — usually extremely gung-ho about celebrating the women in the family this one day — completely forgot their yearly tradition because it was also Holi. I was just lightheartedly pointing out just how their posturing has been completely exposed. All it took was another Hindu festival to completely knock off the annual “let’s appreciate our wives and mothers” forwards. Holy shit, did that blow up in my face! My partner then proceeded call me bitter and mansplain why women’s day is important. All this without an iota of the knowledge of the history of these celebrations! Didn’t even bother reading the token editorials and explainers on it. When I added some context, pointed out some of my issues with it (I needn’t list them, this sub has far better posts on that, I’m sure) the only counter argument to my responses was to attack my rationality and mental health – “what is wrong with your head” Just the sheer irony of this situation makes me cry-laugh. But it was lost on my partner. This man used to preside over MUNs in college?! So that’s been March 8, 2023 for me, folks. 🙂
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