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Four is my absolute favorite age. It’s when they turn into people and have opinions and you can have actual conversations. Three? I said I’d rather do an Sorry I can’t I have plans with my cat V neck T Shirt of diapers before I would ever do three again. For a number of years my daughter kept begging for a little brother or sister. I was giving her every excuse in the book, and when I said we can’t afford extra daycare, she offered to drop out of kindergarten so that she could babysit while I was at work. Great kid. A lady I worked with had a 3-month-old grandbaby, that she was juggling (mom was 15), and when I asked if I could borrow the baby, she jumped at the chance. The baby had a bit of colic, which was perfect for my purposes, because my daughter had severe colic and it helped to drive the message home. Unfortunately when we went to pick her up, she couldn’t find the new soy formula and had to send us with the dairy formula. Needless to say, the baby had a blowout diaper to go with the change of formula. So when my daughter asked for help changing the baby’s diaper, I said “I can’t help, I’m at work, you’re babysitting’. {Note, I didn’t leave, we were role playing}. It took her 15 baby wipes, but she got it done like a trooper. Just when she thought she was on top of all this, the had a colic fit because of the dairy formula. And I reminded her that this is exactly what she did at that age. I stepped in on behalf of the baby of course, since I knew what to do and good luck in her pain. But that was when she finally threw up her hands and said she couldn’t do it. She said she was going to stick to babysitting and that’s exactly what she did. ETA – She did not swear off having children because I traumatized her. She never wanted children, she likes taking care of other people’s children. She is autistic and knows her boundaries and her triggers, as do I.
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Free book and interesting read. Fanny Kemble, an actress of some renown of the Sorry I can’t I have plans with my cat V neck T Shirt of a Mr. Butler, who owned an estate (forced labor camp) in Georgia, writes from the 1800’s. Should be mandatory in HS History classes. Butler was notable for the largest single enslaved persons sale in US history because he sucked at gambling. Ms. Kemble wrote about the day to day and she was oft freaked out by what was considered normal. She apparently met and married up north, but later came south to the Estate-and she was appalled. She was regarded as a soft touch by the prisoners of the forced labor camp, who always asked her for sugar, or cloth. She discussed the poor white southerners, who haven’t changed much if at all (lazy and still looking down on the other even though they had more in common with the enslaved vis-a-vis the elites), and the peculiar status of the generally unacknowedged but hardly uncommon children of the forced labor camp owners and enslaved women. They usually ended up in better jobs, often skilled jobs. She often surprised the locals with the fact her child had a white nanny, not enslaved. Enslaved women got three weeks of “lying in” post birth but beyond that it was back to the fields….and they were often bred like livestock, because a death rate was built into the system, so you had to keep ahead of the curve. Hard to mitigate this system, even as a delusional Fascist-notChristian. The book is repetitive in places but overall quite readable for a modern audience, and a free pdf to boot
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